Found boyfriends profile on dating site
Don't get me wrong: In your shoes, I would be upset, but I think it's possible you can get through this.
Here's how I think you should do it…First of all, I think you're right to not have this conversation over the phone.
Recently, I found out that he had downloaded apps on his phone (Tinder and How About We) sometime after I moved away.
I assure you I didn't find out in a dishonorable way; it was purely an accident that I wish I could forget.
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The primary reason to keep an online dating profile active is simple: the desire to meet people. Maybe he just likes having his ego stroked when women flirt with him. He may not flirt but likes the idea that women like him. At the very least, this action is a serious sign of disrespect.
This is a problem since he’s not in a position to be flirting! If you’re his woman, he should appreciate that and shouldn’t be pulling this kind of thing.
Fortunately, these sites aren't as safe and anonymous as would be adulterers and cheaters would like to believe.
Hi Guys, My boyfriend has just walked out on me after three years of what I thought was a great relationship. Yes, you did breach the trust of your relationship by snooping, but we can assure you that you’re not the one who caused irreparable damage to the relationship. Because otherwise we can’t see how you could “accidentally” discover he was on a dating site.
I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it.
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